Post by otterfox on May 30, 2009 1:03:44 GMT 9
May 20, 2009 7:42:31 GMT 9 一姫 said:
They don't fight at all. x__xMy mum says she's been unhappy for like 10 or more years even. Just up and told my dad she hasn't loved him for a long time. And my dad, still loves her so much. ;__; it's so sad. I mean... it's not like I live with them or anything, but I am very, very much like my dad [we have the same kinds of problems mentally] and as a result... it makes me so scared of my own relationships future. I was so sure I wanted to get married with my fiance. But now...I think I'm too scared to. -Sniffle.- BAWW emo. -Shuts up.-
Try not to fear too much D: I think the reason your parents don't fight and why your mother was so unhappy was because she never said anything, right? Never really complained (at least, not about relationship things) never really talked to your father about the things that were bothering her?
If so, then I'm sure you don't really have anything to worry bout with your fiance, as long as he's willing to tell you what bothers him. Lack of communication is a HUGE factor in unsuccessful relationships. My husband and I are able to get along wonderfully and have very few problems because we talk to each other. If something bothers one of us, all we have to say is "Hon, please don't do that/say that, it really bothers me" and the other will listen and try to fix it the best they can.
I know a break up is never a fun thing to go through, even if you're already out of the home, but please try not to feel too bad about it and don't worry so much about your own relationship. If you do start worrying and doubting yourself, things WILL break apart.
Live for today, luv ^_^